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Showing posts with label informational. Show all posts

Saturday, August 6, 2011

Introducing New Works to Active Toddlers


When he's not looking at books or listening to music, Tyler is quite an active, squirmy little guy. Mostly though, he's impatient and controlling (i.e he's a toddler!). When I sit down and place a new activity on his rug he rushes over immediately and with excitement, which is great, but he often doesn't often wish to sit and wait for me to demonstrate. He dives in, especially if there are several pieces to work with. From the first glance, he thinks he knows what to and goes for it, or at least has his own ideas (which I do admire). Stopping him to let me show him what he can do usually leads to frustration and Tyler simply walking away lately, which isn't what I want either.

My solution to this has been to demonstrate new works while Tyler is having snack at his little table. His hands are too busy with his food to grab at what I'm doing and his eyes and mind are open and focused on what I'm up to. It has worked so well! He typically starts the work while still snacking or soon afterwards if he's interested. When I feel that he's ready, I move the work to the Montessori shelves and he understands that this means he will need his work rug. It isn't what Dr. Montessori had in mind at all, but in order to demonstrate anything properly at first, it's what has to be done!

I do plan to continue to try introducing works on the rug here and there so he may learn the role of demonstrator and student.  I won't allow my expectations or faith in him to drop, as I believe children live up to what we believe almost every time, but I will also do what needs to be done for him to feel success. He's so curious and wants to learn, he just doesn't always want to take the time to stop for a moment and watch!

Any other parents or teachers have advice or tricks on introducing works to young children?


Oh, and by the way, the pattern activity that's pictured here is one of the many things that I purchased from a neighbor's garage sale recently. Ty was so bored with the lacing beads and pattern sheets I made him, but using these bugs has been much more fun for him! I believe it was made by Discovery Toys and it came with several different pattern strips. I'm starting easy right now with just two colors at a time but I think he'll be ready to advance soon. He enjoys making the dragonflies fly around as he's playing and pushing the caterpillar along the table. I love wonderful garage sale finds like this!

Tuesday, May 24, 2011

Question: Sensitive Period for Letters?


This post may seem like a brag at first, but I promise that I truly have questions and concerns that I hope some of the Montessori teachers, or those more experienced than I, would be willing to help me with. I don't want to screw-up.

A few weeks ago, playing with letters on a magnet board at the museum, Tyler (now 21 mos old) was holding the letter "H". I had simply been watching, then casually said to him, "That's the letter "H". To which he replied "Huh-Huh-Huh" to make the sound. I was floored. I thought it must be a weird coincidence. Over the last couple weeks I've randomly asked him what starts with different letters and this is what I have gotten, sometimes letter sounds and sometimes words that start with the letter (note: he isn't a big talker yet at all):

A: Ahhh-Ahhh
B: Ba-ba or Buh-Buh
C: Cookie, Cuh-Cuh or he also gives the soft C sound "Ssss"
D: Dada or Duh
F: Fffffff
G: Guh Guh or Go
H: Huh Huh
K: Kitty or Kuh
L: La la la
M: Mama
S: Ssss
T: Tuh (sometimes he can do this, he has trouble making this sound in general)

I have never taught him anything about letters or their sounds. He doesn't watch television. He has a couple of your typical alphabet books (Sandra Boynton A-Z etc) but nothing that teaches this.

My question is, should I start introducing the sandpaper letters? My fear is that teaching him these things too early will cause him to form weak connections in the brain rather than the strong ones that would form when he's older/truly ready (I forget exactly which book I read about that in). I'm also wondering if he's in a sensitive period for letters right now. I think about how he went through such a stacking obsession for a while and I gave him tons of things to stack with to encourage his drive...then he literally woke up one morning last week and didn't care to stack anymore (though he can...I checked!). Does knowing letter sounds on his own signify readiness?

We've been told recently that Tyler likely has a very high IQ and that we need to challenge him and think of him as a preschooler with some things, but I really am torn with this. To me letters/alphabet/reading are such important skills and I don't want to do this too early and ruin it for him...but don't want to miss a window if it's open now. Any advice would be very welcome!

Tuesday, May 17, 2011

Challenging...without always spending.

Like a lot of kids, Ty can be a difficult to keep challenged. He has his interests that he works on a bit obsessively, but outside of that he is one who masters things quickly then needs more stimulation. Even as a baby he needed to be carried from thing to thing to thing at a quick pace all day long, until he started to crawl and could get places on his own. To me this has often meant buying more challenging toys or creating more and more works for him, which can be exhausting and of course budget breaking when done exclusively. I've recently learned that simply adding 2-3 more steps to things he already has and does, making it more complex, can be all he needs at times to keep his brain stimulated.

One example that we did this week was a game with balls and bins. Tyler enjoys throwing balls, throwing balls into containers, running, and carrying big balls around, so connecting these made sense. It's a great game for inside on a rainy day or of course can brought outside as well.

I set-up a two large bins (a laundry basket and a crate) on opposite ends of the room, one full of balls. These were our steps, which I demonstrated a couple times first::

Take one ball at a time out of the bin while yelling "ball! or "ball out!"

Run with the ball to the other bin 

Throw the "ball in!".
Give me a high-five (we added this the next time we played)

Run back for another ball

When that bin was full, Ty created his own step of climbing into the crate and throwing the balls out from there. I went with it. I then ran to place each ball in the opposite bin.

We then started over again.

He enjoyed this so much that even after about twenty minutes, when he was clearly tired, he wanted to keep it going. It's now a game that he initiates by himself, setting up the bins and balls and remembering the motions and words.

Another game we created (which I don't have photos for unfortunately) was setting up a bin of balls, a step stool and a large container (I used a crate). Tyler would:
  1. Grab a ball from the bin
  2. Step up onto the stool
  3. Throw the ball in the container
  4. Jump off the step stool
  5. Repeat until balls were all in the container (then refill first bin and start over)
I'm now starting to look at some of his less active toys and other works to add other natural steps as well. For example, with his glass gem and bottle activity, where he simply drops gems into a small or large bottle, I will have him use three different sized jars that he lines up from big to small, then, as he enjoys counting activities, have him put a certain number of gems in each bottle down the line.

If you have limited materials/toys or have a little one who needs a good challenge, this is an easy way to keep you sane and your wallet a bit more full! Adding more steps is also great for learning to follow directions and of course strengthening memory.

Saturday, April 23, 2011

Dying Rice/Pasta for Sensory Play or Art Projects

Dying pasta or rice is fast, simple, inexpensive, and the results are really fun!


What you'll need:

Uncooked pasta or rice
Rubbing alcohol
Resealable baggie or bowl and spoon
Food coloring
Wax paper or paper towels 

Add a couple tablespoons of rubbing alcohol and several drops of food coloring to pasta or rice. If using a bowl, mix with a spoon until colored. If using a baggie as I did, simply shake. Include your child, using something to protect their clothing, if possible! Lay plenty of paper towels or wax paper on a flat surface and spread out the rice or pasta to dry. Mine was dry in about half an hour with use of an overhead fan.

Somehow this reminded me of salt maps we made in sixth grade...

Lovely pastel shades just in time for Easter! If you'd like your colors to be darker, using more food coloring (and perhaps more rubbing alcohol) should do the trick. I used about 15 drops of color for each.

Instant attraction. He ran across the room to check out the bin and went right to work.

We used a funnel to assist with getting the rice into a small bottle.

Tyler especially enjoyed scooping and filling other containers with plastic Easter eggs!

Colored rice or pasta could be used in simple art projects for toddlers as well. Simply gluing pasta to cardboard or shaking rice onto glue by putting the rice into something like a parmesan cheese container are just two simple yet fun ways for toddlers to create.

Friday, March 4, 2011

A Day of Peace

Are you one of the 1,683,527 people participating in this event today? Sure, it's a Facebook event, yet this is how beautiful things start! Perhaps a day of such behavior will stick with some and carry-on into other days. Maybe the modeling of such kindness will resonate with others, spreading it deeper and wider across a number of people. Ultimately, I do believe that people are "good" and wish to be "good". I also believe that American society has changed to a more selfish and egocentric one, and that being friendly and truly understanding seems more difficult as a result. This is a good self-check for many of us. Maria Montessori would certainly approve.

This is what the creator, Stephen Shoemaker, has proposed:

Wouldn't it be amazing?
Just one day in the year where we all held our tongues.
A day where we ignored others' shortcomings and made a valiant effort to be kind and understanding. 
A day where we all got along. It's sad that we are all at a point where we should do this, but it's even sadder to know that we easily could every day, but refuse to do so.

Rule #1.Say not a single unkind thing about anyone or anything. If at all possible, try not to even think a nasty thought. If we do, reflect on why it was that we thought to say it in the first place.

Rule #2.
Show everyone we cross paths with some genuine human compassion. Be it with a smile or kind words, just spread some love.


Rule #3.Make not one person the exception to the rule. Not everyone deserves to have roses thrown at their feet and have a holiday in their honor, but nobody deserves to feel alone. Reach out. Talk to someone new. Care about them, and we will be cared for in return.

Tuesday, March 1, 2011

Montessori Education Week

It's Montessori Education Week! This is my celebration post and small tribute to Dr. Montessori. I'm finding, via personal messages and comments, that many of you are using my blog as one of your ways to learn about Montessori, so I hope to soon have a post that will talk more in-depth about Montessori philosophy and what it entails from my understanding thus far. It is certainly a difficult concept to summarize!


Dr. Maria Montessori
[1870-1952]

“The secret of good teaching is to regard the child’s intelligence as a fertile field in which seeds maybe sown, to grow under the heating flame of imagination. Our aim is to not only make the child understand, and still less force him to memorize, but so to touch his imagination as to enthuse him to his innermost core. We do not want complacent pupils but eager ones. We seek to sow life in the child rather than theories to help him in his growth, mental and emotional as well as physical and for that we must offer grand and lofty ideas to the human mind”   
 --Dr.Maria Montessori


For a video on how Montessori works, view "Montessori Education for the Early Childhood Years" by The American Montessori Society here: http://www.youtube.com/v/OM1Gu9KXVkk



For simple ways to celebrate and practice Montessori in your home or classroom this week (or always!), visit this link: http://www.forsmallhands.com/articles/?article=080225&type=newsletters

Monday, February 14, 2011

This whole Montessori thing...it's working!

At 17 mos old, I wasn't sure how much the activities we do and things that I have introduced Tyler to would really matter. Sure, he seems to enjoy and understand a lot of it, but is he truly working towards normalization yet? Well, I've been surprised in the last week to see how much it's sinking in!

After doing lessons on his fruit and vegetable nomenclature cards a few times and feeling confident that he knew what to do, I put three sets on the shelf. I wasn't convinced that this was something that he'd choose to do, especially as it's in the same location as his latches board, coin box, color stacker/sorter and farm puzzle(big favorites), but I had an empty spot on the shelf that was driving me nuts. These cards would have a lot of competition, and how much joy would he find in matching? He seemed to like working with them, but how much really? I expected that he would simply dump them on the floor and that I'd need to find a better choice for that spot soon, but it was worth a shot.

Catching him at work

For the first couple days, I saw him take the cards out at least once and do a match or two on the floor all on his own. I was shocked. Since then I walk into the kitchen several times a day to see that he is using them, or I notice the matches together on the floor where he's been. I can often hear him trying to pronounce each as he's looking at those cards as well; he now has a cute toddler-ese word for "potato" that I won't even attempt to sound out here!   

Taking the matching a step further by matching red pentagons from his color stacker as well?

If Tyler hadn't been interested in this work and I had attempted to force it upon him, this wouldn't have been the result. Pushing a child to learn something they're not interested in or ready to learn simply leads to an internal resentment towards learning as well as whatever specific activity you're trying to shove down their throat. The philosophy of Montessori is to follow the child's lead and to allow the child's natural path and pace of learning guide what they do and what you introduce, not to attempt to "create a genius".  I find this is the way some people who don't understand Montessori view the method and it couldn't be less true. Learning is to be seen as joyful to the child and seem like play! If Tyler isn't interested in an activity, we stop and try again another time. If Tyler is showing keen interest in another area, which is revealed by keeping a close watch on his daily activity, I introduce as much of that sort of work as I can create and find. A love for learning develops with the Montessori method, and I can see it truly budding in my little guy!  




Another recent "he's getting it!" moment happened over the weekend. I had been to Hobby Lobby for the first time and I excitedly came home with several bags full of goodies to create activities, a spring display, and art projects. As I was unpacking the bags onto the floor to take-in the sights of my many treasures, Ty became interested in some colorful glass bottles I had purchased. I had bought tiny puff-balls for him to put into these bottles for fine motor practice, and in an effort to keep him busy for a bit, I quickly opened the puff-balls and showed him what to do. He caught on and enjoyed the challenge of managing the tiny balls and getting them into the small openings on the bottle. He enjoys the glass gem and glass bottle activity so much, I figured this would be similar but more difficult. Success!



 After working for a few minutes, he suddenly got up and headed to where we keep his rug and frantically started to pull it out. He realized that what he was working on was an activity that would usually be done on his rug and wanted that area to work on! We've only really used the Montessori rug concept for two weeks, but it is an idea that Tyler clearly enjoys! We helped him move the work to his rug (and have since moved his rug to an easier, more accessible place) where he calmly continued and finished.  Normalization has truly begun!


An interesting piece of work, freely chosen, which has the virtue of inducing concentration rather than fatigue, adds to the child's energies and mental capacities, and leads him to self-mastery."
--Dr. Maria Montessori 



Friday, February 11, 2011

"Mom, Please Let Me Work!"

I've noticed that Ty has been feeling a little out of sorts lately, sometimes more than a little. He's always been a child who's tuned-in on many levels and channels all at once, not able to help seeing, hearing, and physically and emotionally feeling everything around him with intensity. Often this just leads to curiosity and exploring, though it seems that when you combine this constant alertness with feeling tired, hunger, teething pain, or a change of routine, he becomes overwhelmed and doesn't know what to do with himself. Attempting to get Tyler to nap on his own without co-sleeping lately has led to shorter naps and thus, a tired little boy who feels frazzled quite a bit.

After reading "The Absorbent Mind" and realizing that when Tyler feels and acts this way, he needs work (i.e. the Q-tip blog), has been so enlightening and helpful to us all. While Tyler became bored with the Q-tip activity quickly, filling glass containers with gems has become a huge favorite. This is not to say that we don't also provide quiet snuggles on the couch, reading and singing, but Ty is understanding that are other ways to become balanced. outside of us..


For a few days, we rolled out his rug and gave him this work when he was feeling overwhelmed, and he would gladly take to it, leaving it when he felt centered and happy. Now he is noticing his own emotions and realizing what he needs to do in order to feel better and he's actually requesting, if not begging, for the activity. As the gems are small and require supervision, it is on top of a bookshelf just out of his reach, but he has no problem letting us know his wishes. At times he will also pull his rug from behind the chair, or if it's still out (oops) he will catch our eye and sit on it with a hopeful look. It is amazing to me that at 17 mos old he is not only recognizing his own emotions, but knowing what to do in order to relieve himself of them. I know adults who can't do this!


I'm left thanking all of my lucky stars for Maria Montessori, as well as feeling happy for my child on his journey towards self-soothing and emotional regulation (something my sensitive sweetie has always struggled to manage on his own).  I'm proud of you Tyler!

Tuesday, February 8, 2011

Toddler Art

I wanted to share a few of Tyler's latest artistic endeavors with all of you and perhaps provide (and receive!) a few new ideas. Ty's really getting into painting, coloring and enjoys chalking inside (though its easy to see that he can't wait to get back outside on the driveway!). Tyler's art activities at this point are all open-ended. There's no picture in my mind that I expect to see at the end, no parts to glue and stick in a specific place, no "right" or "wrong" way to do it; it's all about creating as he sees fit. He likes this very much and it's enjoyable, if not beautiful, to watch him work with deliberate strokes and thought!

I remember years ago, working in a traditional American day care, where arts and crafts too often meant toddlers being shown a model of what they were to themselves create, with expectations to follow through appropriately from their teachers. It seemed incredibly silly for these young minds to grasp this concept, and then sad when a teacher would lean over to "fix" the work or to guide the child's hand the entire time in order to complete the craft. For example, the class would be asked sit down at the table and to create a paper plate turkey, gluing the feathers and parts of the neck and head in specific places. Typically the child would attempt to glue pieces randomly all over the plate (which is developmentally appropriate) and a teacher would then swoop in and interrupt to provide assistance. The result would be a nice looking turkey for the pleased parents to hang on the refrigerator at home, but the creativity, joy and imagination (the whole point of art!) had been squashed. The child took little of value from the activity and instead of a sense of pride and confidence was lost. The child was left thinking "I sure didn't do that right. I guess I'm not very good at that stuff" and may be less willing to do projects such as this in the future.

At times, I did happily observe other teachers showing a quick model, giving the pieces and letting the little toddlers do as they wished. These children were much happier and came away with a true experience and sense of accomplishment. They may not understand that they have just created a turkey, though the gluing, sticking and simply developing their creative powers was fun and they developed fine motor skills nonetheless. In my opinion, it's not important to control the young child's artistic efforts but to simply provide materials and safety rules around their use. When a child grows older, there can be some value in following directions and making a specific piece of art just like a model, though even then, the majority of art activities should be about the joy of creativity and imagination and building those skills with the child's own mind...and wherever that mind may naturally go. Isn't that, after all, what art is about?

Okay, onto the fun stuff...Ty creating art!


Ty really got into coloring with crayons in January. A piece of paper taped to his table and a few crayons are always ready for him (he's not drawing on the walls...yet)!


Ty noticed our box of chalk from the warmer months on a shelf this day and begged to have it. This seemed to fulfill his desire a bit.


Painting with a brush

Painting with Q-tips


Sponge painting

I found a three-pack of sponges in the dollar section at Target and cut them into different shapes.


First time using markers


Marble painting. The idea is to roll the container from side-to-side so that the marbles run through the paint, but Ty rejected that idea immediately, and decided to use the marbles to paint with directly.

I then grabbed him a brush to use as well.


Painting with cars and trains to make tracks.

Big hit for any car, truck or train lover! Textured or bumpy wheels would make excellent prints

Our first attempt at using glue stick to stick paper shapes. He found the sticky glue intriguing.

He was much too silly and full of amoxocillin stimulant to focus on this activity. Dumping the container of shapes become more interesting, so we'll try again soon!


I created a new sticky art wall yesterday, using shapes with decorative paper from my old scrapbooking supplies. Ty was thrilled and got right to work! I have a feeling this type of activity will be a fixture in our home for quite a while. If you missed my first blog about this activity, here's the link: http://jen-peacefulparenting.blogspot.com/2010/12/getting-creative-with-contact-paper.html


I have several new art activities that I'm excited to let Tyler try in the next few weeks. We'll see how they go! In the meantime, I'd love to hear what art endeavors you and your little ones have been excited about. I'm always looking for new ideas! 

While I love all of my Monet's and photography that decorate much of our house, to me, there's nothing like my child's artwork all over the walls to make our home feel cozy and full of love! 

Sunday, December 5, 2010

Common Montessori Myths

People seem to have a lot of mis-information about Montessori, and before I started my research, I did too! Knowing that I have a lot of friends/parents who are curious about Montessori reading my blog, as well as family members, I thought I'd create an informative post on the subject. This is about public Montessori schools, though much of what I do at home at this age is guided by these principles.

Myth 1: Montessori is just for rich kids.
Yes, Montessori is expensive, but today, in the United States, there are over 250 public Montessori schools and 100 charter schools that offer taxpayer-financed schooling, along with thousands of private, not-for-profit Montessori programs that use charitable donations to offer low-cost tuition.Montessori education, through these low-cost options, is available to families interested in quality education. Many private, high-dollar schools offer scholarships, and some states offer childcare credits and assistance to low-income families.

Myth 2: Montessori is just for gifted kids.
Montessori is for all children.To the casual observer, Montessori students may appear advanced for their age, leading to the assumption that the schools cater to gifted children. In reality, Montessori schooling helps each child develop individuality in a way that accentuates his or her innate intelligence. Montessori gives the child the opportunity to gain mastery at a pace that allows each child to be successful. Montessori takes full advantage of the young child.s intense desire to learn while respecting his individuality. The teacher takes her cues from the child.s interests, and learning is organized to make the most of those interests.

Myth #3: Montessori classrooms are chaotic.
Although this may appear true to the untrained eye, anyone who observes a Montessori classroom for several hours will see something very different than chaos.The Montessori system at its best is all about allowing children the opportunity to do things for themselves. We encourage self-discipline even in the very young child, and always aim for a minimum of interference from the adults in the environment. The “teacher” is really more of a “guide” – he enables the child to educate himself  using the materials that have been designed for that purpose.

Children are not moved about the classroom in groups and asked to all do the same activity at the same time. Rather, a wide range of self-correcting (auto-didactic) materials are made available to the child. After the initial demonstration of a material by an experienced adult or an older child, the child in a Montessori classroom is free to choose whatever activity is interesting to him. The student is left alone to experiment and practice with the material, teaching himself and developing concentration, coordination, and independence in an orderly world that does not require the interference of any authority. Montessorians believe that the normal state of any child is to be relaxed, peaceful and absorbed in activity. In the classroom, disputes between children are almost always settled by the children themselves. They absorb conflict management skills from the teachers, who are trained to be deeply respectful of themselves, others and the world around them. The role of the adult (teacher) in the classroom is observer of activity and facilitator of self-discipline as opposed to director of activity and enforcer of  rules.

Myth 4: Montessori classrooms are too structured.
On the contrary, in the Montessori classroom, children are allowed to move freely about to access all the learning materials they need. Additionally, for children, play and “work” are often the same thing. In other words, when children engage with the Montessori learning materials, they are indeed learning but it feels like play to them. For example, think of how your own child can joyfully while away the hours manipulating and arranging objects like toys or blocks. The two experiences are similar, but in the Montessori environment, the student is actually working toward mastery of skills and subjects. Montessori students are allowed to work with specific learning materials for as long as they desire, and the fact that they will until they feel they have mastered it is testimony to the power of the method. Children in Montessori choose to work toward mastery and are internally motivated by a natural love of learning.  

Myth 5: Montessori is an outdated method that peaked in the Sixties.
An education based on the observation of children, and on your child in particular, is hard to outdate. Everyone knows the approximate ages children begin to walk, to talk, to lose teeth, even to learn to read. Fads in education come and go because they are not based on observation of children. Often they’re not even based on child development.  The Montessori Method, on the other hand, represents a solid body of observation of child development that has been successfully employed internationally for over a hundred years. Montessori methodology is closer to a true scientific method of instruction than any other educational program in the world today.
  
Myth 6: The Montessori method is really just some special materials.
Montessori materials are specifically designed to develop the child's powers and means of observation through the senses. The development of the senses precedes intellectual activity, and Montessori educators understand how to use the materials to facilitate this development. When the senses are finely developed, the child teaches himself. Experience has shown that the child will discard the materials and work without them when the senses are adequately developed.

Myth 7: Montessori does not permit social development.
The respect the teacher shows each child is a model for children to follow in learning to respect each other. Young children interact with each other and with the adults, gradually becoming more giving and more sensitive to others. The two to three year age span within each class causes the learning of younger children from older ones to be a natural occurrence. Montessori respects the child and the child.s need, from time to time, for privacy. Areas and activities in the classroom provide for solitude, as well as, interaction with peers. Older children often tutor and assist the younger children and children may work together or by themselves as they choose.
  
Myth #8: Montessori teachers are strict and overly concerned with academics
At its core, the Montessori philosophy is based on respect. Respect for the planet, for ourselves and for each other. What Montessori teachers are actually being with the children is: respectful. To some, this might at first appear as emotional distance or hard-heartedness. It’s not! Respect for the child runs deep and means, among other things, that we don’t invade their personal space without being invited. They try not to define children by their appearance, so we don’t make a habit of remarking on their outfits: as a matter of fact, they feel that it’s more important that the child dress him or herself than that their socks match!  As teachers, the love for your children runs very, very deep indeed. You’ll find, as the children do, that it is a firm, fair, steady type of affection without hysteria and not conditioned upon “good” behavior. We strive to avoid patronizing the child; our voices when speaking with them are our normal voices, not high-pitched or saccharine sweet. We  cherish children, and when your child needs that extra helping of compassion, hugs and kisses, the child will find it.

Myth 9: Montessori is affiliated with the Catholic Church.
The Montessori movement has no religious affiliations. Around the world, there are Montessori schools that are part of Christian, Muslim, Jewish, and other religious communities. Like many preschools, some Montessori programs may be sponsored by a church or synagogue, but most Montessori schools are established as independent entities. Conversely, a school might be housed in a church building and not have any religious affiliation. Since Montessori refers to a philosophy, and not an organization, schools are free to have relationships with other organizations, including churches.

My sources come from various, official Montessori schools, who all share the same philosophy and guidelines.